Everyone has one, but not everyone is one. I once knew a gentleman who classified everyone who did not agree with his position, to be one. I was so unhappy with my performance on the sailboat last weekend, that I called myself one.

In my frustration with my stumbling around on deck, the instructions I shouted to Maureen sounded to her as if I was angry with her performance in the cockpit. As well she was truly concerned about my attempting these tasks without a life-jacket or a tether! She had good reason to think I damn well could have fallen off the boat into the turbulent water.
Although I have been sailing for seventy years there is still more to learn. Of course, I probably also need to relearn a few things now and again! What was interesting about this episode was that the boat was teaching me something very personal. First, I was careless going on deck in those conditions minus the proper safety equipment. Secondly, my verbal frustration with my own sloppy behaviour was interpreted as anger towards another.
What we have here is a typical experience of getting old. The time has come when I have to pare down some of my life long practices. I can no longer balance myself on a bouncing boat, and at the same time, do a proper job with the sails. Learning to live with the new limitations aging provides is often difficult. As someone once said, 'It's not hard getting old, what is hard is doing it gracefully.'
![]() |
Google Images |
I like this quote, "Getting older is no problem. You just have to live long enough." (Groucho Marx) In other words, don't give up living because you are old. At least that is one way to interpret his quote!
The real truth is, at least in our society, getting older means getting better. The wisdom accumulated through the years opens us to new experiences so that we can continue to have an interesting and fruitful time in life.
Yes, I was one this past weekend. But, even if I am not as agile as I was forty years ago, I can still get out there and enjoy the art of sailing.
Yes, I was one this past weekend. But, even if I am not as agile as I was forty years ago, I can still get out there and enjoy the art of sailing.
And that's Dicks View of the World this Week
Did You Know?
The city of Beijing in China has restricted the number of new cars on the road. Should Toronto examined this idea?
No comments:
Post a Comment
All comments are welcome - positive or negative. Thanks for your support.